Cozzie’s Corner, Food For Thought

You may be waiting for a bus on a street where busses never run. Every one of us, no matter how successful we may be, find ourselves waiting to be rescued or waiting for the bus that will never come. This situation may be in the workplace, in the family arena, with friendships, in the area of creativity or love. If you don’t take charge of the area of life that is wanting, you can end up waiting forever.

Make it a game, set high standards and put pressure on yourself in order to overcome procrastination or fear. Choose the area of your life where you are waiting for the bus that is never going to come. Work a little harder and go the extra mile to get what you do not yet have. By putting the pressure on yourself, you will feel terrific and complete.

I would like to address the area of life that is extremely important to all of us, which is relationships and partnerships. Most people expect to find an ideal mate within a 50 mile radius of where they live and work. If you stop to think about it, what would be the odds of that happening? This could be comparable to waiting for the bus where buses don't run. Or, in keeping with this analogy, the wrong buses keep coming. So that leads us to the question , "Well how then would I find an ideal mate?”

The answer is, you must mentally DRAW them to you. I have dedicated a lot of time and effort to this subject in order to provide you with a wor

kable system to help draw into your life an ideal mate. My 40+ years background in the field of Metaphysics, and my understanding of the Universal Principles have given me excellent, workable tools to accomplish this. I have been teaching this process for years and it WORKS!!

The classes take an entire day to teach, but I’m going to share with you the basics here and now. If you will follow these easy steps, the process will work for you: 

  • Set aside time to be alone. Take a soothing bath or shower. Get yourself a cup of coffee, tea or you favorite drink. Get a note book and pen. Lower the lights, and light some candles. Sit in a very comfortable chair and relax.  At the top of your notebook write the heading, “Description of my Ideal Mate.” Under that put a heading on the left of the page, “Characteristics that are a MUST” and a heading on the right of the page, “Characteristics that can be compromised.” 
  • Spend at least an hour every night or as often as possible working on your LIST. Think about it day and night. Keep going back and adding or changing that list until it seems perfect. I said ‘seems’ because you will keep changing it as new people come into your life. That is okay, that is part of the process. 
  • In preparing your list, be sure to state everything in the positive. (i.e. instead of saying “I do not want a person who smokes.” You would instead state it, “I want a person who is smoke free.”) 
  • Be sure that you go out and take advantage of every opportunity to meet new people.

Don’t be in a hurry, you will KNOW your ideal what he or she appears! And they will! If you try this and need help, or you would prefer to learn much, much more on attracting your ideal mate, you can email me at dcozzie@juno.com and request dates and times of future classes.